Thursday, June 4, 2009

21 Years Later




Looking back sometimes I ask myself, would I do things different? Would I marry so young? Do I think I found the right guy, or was there someone waiting for me? The answers: No, I wouldn't do things different, yes I would marry at the age I did, and I did find the right guy, he was the one waiting. Do I think we're right for each other? I don't think there's anyone "right" for each other. I think it's all how you make it. You loved each other, hopefully, enough to get married in the first place, and no one can tell you that you didn't or weren't in love with each other. Okay, maybe things didn't work out as was planned, but marriage, at least to me, isn't a straight shooting arrow....it's something you work at, with laughter, tears, love, frustration, energy, and patience. Did I find the "perfect" guy for me? Yes, I did. Am I the "perfect" one for him? Only he knows. Have we had the "perfect" marriage? No, but we've survived the curveballs and I think have come out stronger than before. Will we last forever? Only God knows that one.
Happy Anniversary Babe.....

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